Astrid Natalia

- By Deepak Chopra

Happywoman………

If you’re struggling with how to define your life beyond material goods, Deepak Chopra has seven ways for you to make the shift, once and for all, to a purpose-driven life and authentic happiness. One of the most positive ways to live is to look on every obstacle as a hidden opportunity. This holiday season poses huge challenges for those among us who have lost their jobs or feel financially insecure. Even if you don’t fall into that category, the evening news brings worries on many fronts, from the deficit to terrorism. I’d like to propose that there is a common problem in all these things that you can turn into an opportunity.

The problem is how to be happy.

Right now, the American way of life defines happiness along lines that are quickly being outmoded:

You will be happy if you consume as much as possible.

You will be happy if you have money, the more the better.

You will be happy if you can distract yourself with video games, television, the Internet and movies.

You will be happy if you fall in love with “the right one” and raise a family in a house you own paid for by a secure job.

The current economic downturn has affected all these factors, and even before it happened, high divorce rates were undermining the traditional model of the American family, moving from job to job was becoming increasingly common and rates of depression, anxiety and drug use continued to soar. As a background to all these things, stress is rising in everyone’s life.

Instead of ignoring these trends, why not go to the root of the problem, which is that we need a new way of being happy. What do divorce, terrorism, unemployment and buying big-screen TVs have in common? They all show that happiness can be taken away, because when you depend on anything outside yourself to make you happy, your happiness is vulnerable.

A new way to be happy would be based on the following new principles:

1. Life has a purpose. When you live up to that purpose, inner happiness develops.

2. Inner happiness can’t be taken away.

3. In place of consumerism, you can base everyday happiness on relationships.

4. In place of distractions, you can fill your time with activities that make your heart grow.

5. You can find a place beyond fear that crises and anxiety cannot touch.

6. You can find a place of peace that stress cannot wear out.

7. Wellness will make your body happy.

If people took at a look at their lives and made real attempts to follow these seven principles, a new kind of happiness would be born that no one can take away.

Missing you so much today…

Where r u??

Where have u been?

I’m missing that time so muaccch….:(

U know what? I’ve decided to contact u rarely..

I’m so adore with u but I could’t be with you,that’s the point..

I wish u know this..

Dies ist die Erinnerung an dich, dann ich nicht vergessen.Das ist schön und ich bin mit Ihnen zu bewundern.

Erinnerung

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du :”sorry y agak telat,tadi bli bensin ama pulsa dulu..”
*tau ga seh klo aq uda siap2 dr sejam yg lalu cos tralu excited ktemu kmu

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abis qt pesen mknan+minuman,aq duduk..kebetulan tmpt itu lg sepi bgt,yg dtg cuman qt ber2.Anehnya,dari sekian bnyk kursi,koq kmu ambil duduk dsblhq?Kmu kan bs duduk d dpnq kyk dulu?
hmm…klo aj kmu tau,jantungq brdtak kencang wkt itu

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ich :”prutq mual g bs abisin neh”.
du : “y ud ntar aq yg abisin,aq mkn aj yg kmu ga suka..’*dsambi ngambilin kentang+kecambah dr piringq*
ich :”ayo semangat…Blanda msh jauh..hehe..”*sambil kutepuk pundaknya*

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du :”duh panas…*sambil tarik2 kerah*..efek mkn ini neh *sambil nunjuk kecambah*”.
ich :”hmm..mancing ya?awas..ga usa mancing..”.
du :”y ntar klo mancing,dilepas,mancing lg,dilepas lg..mpe bosen”.*hmm..dasar pria!!tp jujur,kmu charming bgt mlm ini with that sweater

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du :”kmu pake lipgloss y?”
ich :”koq tau?”
du :”iya..rasany manis*smbil nyeruput minum dr gelasq pake sedotan,jd critany qt mkn sepiring bedua+segelas bdua????wow…*

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ich:”eh..bntar..ada putih2 tuh di pipimu.krupuk ya?*sambil kutunjuk pipinya*.
du:”ga..ini lho..dr kecambah *sambil dia ngusap pipinya,benernya pengen bgt aq ambil tissue trus ngusap itu dr pipimu :p*

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ich:”habis ini mw kmn?”
du:”loh ktnya mw k ATM..”
ich:”oh iya y..trus,pulang?”
du:”y iyalah..mw kmn lg?kan uda mlm..lgan aq ada janji ama tmnq..”
*pdhl klo boleh jujur,aq msh pengen lbh lama lg ama kmu*

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du:”mau dipegangin ga?”*sambil tanganny minta helmq wkt anterin k ATM,so nice

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du:”knp,dingin y?trus ngapain bawa jaket klo ga dipake?”
*sambil aq brtny2,tau drmana dia klo aq kedinginan,pdhl kan aq dia bonceng?*

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du:”liat jaketmu seh..”
ich:”iy neh kebesaran,mknya ga pnah tak pake”
du:”bwt aq y???*sambil pegangin jaketq*tp ga jd wes..panas ini”
*aq seh ga mslh jaket itu bwt kmu,tp yg jd mslh,ap kmu mw pake jaket itu d dpn tmn2mu yg jg tmn2q??*

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ich:”jgn sedih y khilangan aq..”
du:”ga………ga skrg mksudnya *sambil malingin mukanya*”
*maksudmu ap???*

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ich : “met jln y…*smbil dia jabat tgnq* eh..koq ga dilepas2 seh?”
*aq brtny2 dlm ht,kyknya bkn aq deh yg ga mw lepasin tgn,tp kmu :p
Lah koq tiba2 ngalihin perhatian bilang tanganny lecet gr2 kena setir motor hmm..sngaja y?:D*

*bnrnya tau ga seh,slama pjlnan plg koq kmu pelan…bgt jlnnya seakan mengulur waktu bhkan mpe puter jln sgala,tp aq seh seneng aj,hehe kan bs lbh lama ama kmu..
andaikan boleh tuh wkt itu,pengen aj rsny peluk kmu dr blakang sambil bilang..

“Thanks to you,this night will be one of the best moment in my life with you..”